next steps Thank you for sending me your e-mail which I have read with interest. If you’ve been sent to this page, it’s so that I can ask you a few very specific questions to help you get clear on your goals.Please take a few moments to answer the questions below. Name * First Name Last Name Email * Subject * Message * How long has this been going on? Less than 1 month Between 1 and 3 months Between 3 and 6 months Nearly 1 year Over a year This is what I have done about my situation to-date. Please check all that apply to you. Nothing I've complained to the bully themselves I've complained to somebody higher up (informally) I've lodged a formal complaint I've hired lawyers I've been seeing a therapist Why do you believe coaching is the way forward in your particular situation? Please check all that apply to you. I recognize that I lack the skills that I need to deal with a bully and coaching will provide me with those skillsets Having an unbiased person with a strong understanding of what happens when someone is bullied is someone I need in my corner. I've had to deal with bullying on more than one occasion in my life and I want to learn the skills needed to stop this cycle. Lawsuits and investigations can drag on, and become expensive with no guaranteed favourable outcome. While I recognize that Coaches can be expensive too, the learnings that I take away will be an investment in this situation and help minimize the occurrence of future bullying experiences. Please check the areas that you believe apply to you when you continue getting bullied. Please check all that apply to you. It affects my happiness and joy for life It affects my mood (negative more often) and snapping at others It affects my sleep (I spend much time thinking about the situation) I don't look forward to going to the place where I'm likely to meet my bully (Work, sports club, school, home, etc.) It affects my concentration when I am doing my tasks It affects my confidence. It affect my ability to make money (or have a better income) It affects my social life or my relationships It affects my health or physical well-being. How motivated are you to get coached for the problems you're experiencing? 1 - Low - Just seeing what's out there 2 - Sort of - I'm beginning to think about it. 3 - Fairly - It's something that I recognize I can't do on my own. 4 - Very - This has been going on for a while and it needs to stop. 5 - Extremely - I recognize that there are people who don't get bullied, and I'm driven to learn the skills that make me bully-proof. On a scale of 1 (Low) to 5 (High) how much do you feel you need this? Coaching can be effective. If so far nothing has worked, I can help you with both short-term tactical and long-term Bully-Proofing solutions that will serve you for the rest of your life. 1 2 3 4 5 Finally I want you to ask yourself, if your current (and future) bully problems would go away because you had the tools to deal with the bully and render them ineffective easily and effortlessly, what would these skills be worth to you? Loosely let us know your budget. Under £500 £500 - £1000 £1000 - £2000 £2000 - £5000 Thank you for taking the time to fill out the questionnaire. My hope it that it has given you some insight into your own particular situation.I’ll read through your answers with interest and come back to you shortly!
